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umbers.-it-is-about-recognition.-recognition-of-how-work-evolves.-of-who-is-carrying-what.-of-when-professionalism-turns-into-quiet-endurance.--people-do-not-need-perfect-systems.-they-need-systems-that-notice-them.--that-is-where-trust-lives.-at-the-table.</loc>
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<loc>https://www.koehlerconsulting.ca/blog/at-the-table-when-the-room-gets-bigger</loc>
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